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When you are texting a woman, there are only two valid directions. Either you are getting closer to her by painting an image of the two of you together in her mind, which lowers her anxiety and makes her want to go out with you, or you are
If you are in a bad mood or not feeling confident, the music you put on before texting can genuinely shift your frame of mind. Gym or hype music is not going to create the right vibe. Something with a more sensual or laid-back energy, like
When a woman says her friends all had to go home to work but she chose to stay, the right response is not just validation. It is a moment to display that you operate the same way. Saying something like 'I happen to life, life doesn't happen
Fabrizio Rausa walks through a texting sequence where he went from suggesting a trip to Ubud together all the way to discussing imaginary sons and daughters, joking that the daughters better not be as crazy as her. His point is that none of
Fabrizio Rausa uses an airplane analogy to explain this: a plane burns the most fuel on takeoff, running at full throttle, and only eases back to 60-70% once it is cruising. Early in a career or a major growth phase, you are on the runway.
Fabrizio Rausa points out that even skilled texters fail when they are in the wrong mental state. If you just finished an intense gym session with pumping music, you are wired to be direct and logical, not playful and flirtatious. That mism
Fabrizio Rausa argues that most guys are actually fine when they are face to face with a woman. The real bottleneck is texting. Because almost every stage of modern dating relies on text at some point, being bad at it quietly kills your res
If your primary goal in a relationship is to accumulate experience and grow, you handle endings far better than if your goal is to secure a particular outcome or hold onto a specific person. When the aim is experience, the end of a relation
There is a silver lining to being financially broke: the kinds of high-maintenance, high-passion women who create the most turbulence are simply not accessible to you yet. They are not paying attention to you, rarely reply, and rarely agree
MembersThe speaker argues that romantic partners, precisely because they care about keeping you close, will never advise you to become more famous, more controversial, wealthier in a way that makes you independent, or to build a wide circle of fre
After recognising that no single woman filled every role well for him, the speaker began deliberately choosing companions based on what he actually needed in a given situation. If he wanted to enjoy a holiday, he would go with women who gen
MembersFabrizio Rausa argues that infidelity should never be forced or strategic in a period of financial struggle. If your primary goal is to maximize income, you should stay focused on work and not think about cheating. He gives a personal examp
When you have resources and are not under financial pressure, your mind naturally turns to sex and romantic variety. The same applies to successful women who have money: they start thinking more about novelty and love. People who are strugg
Fabrizio Rausa sets the entry price for his community, El Patrimono, deliberately high. The stated reason is straightforward: to filter out people who are not serious. He acknowledges the price will likely have increased by the time most vi
Fabrizio Rausa applies the same logic to looks and height that he applies to followers: yes, being tall makes things easier, but a shorter, higher-value man will outcompete a tall loser every time. Obsessing over fixed traits you cannot cha
A common trap is spending money you don't have to project a lifestyle you can't sustain. Fabrizio Rausa is direct about this: even he doesn't go to the beach club every single day because he doesn't have the money for it yet, and that's fin
Being known as the guy who has fun and spends money is a legitimate social asset, but only if you actually have the money to back it up. Fabrizio Rausa is direct about his own situation: he does not go to the beach club every single day bec
Every piece here is something Fabrizio Rausa can talk you through, in their own words.