Your mental state when you text directly shapes the tone she receives
Fabrizio Rausa points out that even skilled texters fail when they are in the wrong mental state. If you just finished an intense gym session with pumping music, you are wired to be direct and logical, not playful and flirtatious. That mismatch kills the banter before it starts. The vibe you are in when you type the message comes through in every word, so texting from the wrong headspace is almost as bad as saying the wrong thing.
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