There are seasons of life when dating is simply a bad ROI
Fabrizio Rausa uses an airplane analogy to explain this: a plane burns the most fuel on takeoff, running at full throttle, and only eases back to 60-70% once it is cruising. Early in a career or a major growth phase, you are on the runway. Forcing yourself to date during that window not only costs time but produces bad results, because your libido naturally drops when you are deeply locked in on a goal. You will not have the right energy to attract women, so the investment will not pay off. Recognising which season you are in is itself a form of strategic thinking.
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