Looks and height in dating get overrated, focus on what you can actually change
Fabrizio Rausa applies the same logic to looks and height that he applies to followers: yes, being tall makes things easier, but a shorter, higher-value man will outcompete a tall loser every time. Obsessing over fixed traits you cannot change is a waste of energy. The productive move is to identify the variables you can actually improve, work on those relentlessly, and trust that the results will follow. The men who fixate on what they can't control use it as an excuse to avoid doing the work on what they can control.
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