Fantasy land framing: how to talk about kids without being weird
Fabrizio Rausa walks through a texting sequence where he went from suggesting a trip to Ubud together all the way to discussing imaginary sons and daughters, joking that the daughters better not be as crazy as her. His point is that none of it makes logical sense, and that is exactly why it works. The conversation is not an interview with a red thread of logic. It is a completely playful, imaginative space. This only works, he emphasizes, when you are not worried about the outcome, not stressed about bills, and genuinely do not care whether she says yes or no to any of it.
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