Why women who love you give you bad advice, especially about your social life and ambitions
The speaker argues that romantic partners, precisely because
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Orienting toward experience rather than outcomes makes breakups easier
If your primary goal in a relationship is to accumulate experience and grow, you handle endings far better than if your goal is to secure a particular outcome or hold onto a specific person. When the aim is experience, the end of a relation
When you are broke, the high-drama women are not even in your world yet
There is a silver lining to being financially broke: the kinds of high-maintenance, high-passion women who create the most turbulence are simply not accessible to you yet. They are not paying attention to you, rarely reply, and rarely agree
Matching the right companion to the right context rather than seeking one for everything
After recognising that no single woman filled every role well for him, the speaker began deliberately choosing companions based on what he actually needed in a given situation. If he wanted to enjoy a holiday, he would go with women who gen