Matching the right companion to the right context rather than seeking one for everything
After recognising that no single woman filled every role well for him, the speaker began deliberately choosing companions based on what he actually needed in a given situation. If he wanted to enjoy a holiday, he would go with women who genuinely made that enjoyable. If he wanted to go to a club or drink, he would not bring someone who would create conflict. His takeaway is that expecting one person to be the right fit for every context is often unrealistic.
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