Less is always more with texting, but dropping the date ask too early also fails
When in doubt, text her less. Less is always more with women. That said, going too far in the other direction and just suddenly hammering her with a date request out of nowhere is also the wrong move. You need to weave the date naturally into the conversation. The goal is to ease it in while you are already painting those images of the two of you in her mind, so that by the time the date comes up it feels like a natural next step rather than an awkward cold ask.
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Putting a price tag on your attention is the core texting principle
The fundamental problem with nice-guy or simp texting is that you give your attention away for free with no conditions attached. Your attention needs to have a price tag on it. You talk to her to advance to a date, and you do that by painti
Every text you send should move toward a date or stay silent
When you are texting a woman, there are only two valid directions. Either you are getting closer to her by painting an image of the two of you together in her mind, which lowers her anxiety and makes her want to go out with you, or you are
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