Why texting without a goal is the most common mistake men make

When you look at a text conversation and there is no movement toward an objective, no attempt to figure out her level of interest, no push toward a meetup, you are just texting for the sake of texting. The girl in Cordell's exchange was clearly trying to figure out what he was doing so she could take advantage of him, get free drinks, or get into the club. He never noticed, never called it out, and never redirected the conversation toward anything that mattered. Every message should serve a purpose. If it does not tell you something about her interest level or move things forward, it is noise.