Putting a price tag on your attention is the core texting principle
The fundamental problem with nice-guy or simp texting is that you give your attention away for free with no conditions attached. Your attention needs to have a price tag on it. You talk to her to advance to a date, and you do that by painting an image of the two of you together in her mind, so she has low anxiety and genuinely wants to meet up. If that is not happening in the conversation, you should not be in the conversation. The moment you start texting like a boy best friend, asking questions just to ask, chasing her timeline, you lose all sex appeal and often go backwards rather than forwards.
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Set up a combined activity instead of asking for a date outright
One of the most effective ways to move a conversation forward is to plant the seed of a shared activity rather than bluntly asking for a date. When a woman mentions something she does, tie yourself into it naturally. In Fabrizio Rausa's exa
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Less is always more with texting, but dropping the date ask too early also fails
When in doubt, text her less. Less is always more with women. That said, going too far in the other direction and just suddenly hammering her with a date request out of nowhere is also the wrong move. You need to weave the date naturally in