Why looks matter far less than most men think for attraction
The looks-maximizer obsession, grinding at the gym, taking peptides, even physically injuring yourself before going out to make your cheekbones look sharper, is a waste of energy when it comes to attracting women. Going to the gym is fine, but do it for your own presence and confidence, not to impress women. A skinny guy or an overweight guy who knows what he is doing can consistently outperform a top-level bodybuilder. Looks can help at the margins, but if looks are the only thing you have going for you, they do not move the needle in any meaningful way.
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