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MembersWhen a woman shares something fun or personal, like her favorite song or what she has been up to, the wrong move is to use it as an excuse to tell her you will call her more often or that you find it cute. That is textbook simp behavior wit
The fundamental problem with nice-guy or simp texting is that you give your attention away for free with no conditions attached. Your attention needs to have a price tag on it. You talk to her to advance to a date, and you do that by painti
MembersWhen a woman implies she wants you to miss her or be interested in her, do not confirm it directly by saying 'I will miss you' or 'I want to see you.' That reads as desperate. Instead, flip it back on her. Say something like 'you just want
MembersInstead of saying 'you're beautiful' out of nowhere, connect the compliment to something she is already talking about. If she mentions wanting to do social media work, you can say she could even post her own content because she is pretty. T
When a woman says her friends all had to go home to work but she chose to stay, the right response is not just validation. It is a moment to display that you operate the same way. Saying something like 'I happen to life, life doesn't happen
MembersOne of Fabrizio Rausa's preferred techniques is to drop a line that assumes a future together, jumping past the question of whether she will sleep with you and into a world where that is already settled. His go-to example is something like
MembersIf a woman asks you a question about yourself before she has even answered the question you just asked her, that is a strong signal of attraction. Fabrizio Rausa notes that after he asked what she liked to do, she came back with 'Where are
Instead of answering 'What are you into?' with a generic list, Fabrizio Rausa drops lifestyle details that open doors for her to engage. When she asked about his interests, he mentioned he was looking for a good cafe to work from. That is n
Nothing you will ever say to a woman will sound as good as whatever she is imagining in her mind. Fabrizio Rausa points out that the female mind is far more oriented toward fantasy than the male mind. So when you paint a picture of the two
One of the most effective ways to move a conversation forward is to plant the seed of a shared activity rather than bluntly asking for a date. When a woman mentions something she does, tie yourself into it naturally. In Fabrizio Rausa's exa
MembersWhen she asked whether Fabrizio Rausa lived in Bali, the logical answer is a flat yes or no. That gives her nothing to think about. Instead, he said he started on a holiday with friends but liked it so much he stayed. That answer is true, b
Posts claiming women want dangerous, violent men are dismissed here as social media fantasy. The practical counterargument is straightforward: actual criminal behavior in 2026 frightens most women rather than attracting them. Men who are ge
MembersFabrizio Rausa reflects on a relationship where his girlfriend was extremely understanding whenever he faced problems. Her constant support reduced his cortisol and stress, but the result was that he felt no excitement toward her. He notice
MembersFabrizio Rausa explains his thinking on infidelity in terms of relative attractiveness. If your girlfriend rates as a nine but you have been with her for two years, a seven who is new will feel more exciting simply because of novelty. His s
MembersRather than making serious declarations about non-exclusivity, Fabrizio Rausa would flirt and joke about it openly. For example, when his former wife asked what they were doing that weekend, he would joke that Friday and Saturday were off-l
MembersFabrizio Rausa says that if you cheat with women who are more attractive and younger than your girlfriend or wife, you gain more respect from her. In his experience with his former wife, he mostly cheated with women who were roughly ten yea
MembersFabrizio Rausa raises the common male belief that cheating is necessary to regain a woman's respect, and Joe Lamptom pushes back with nuance. He agrees that jealousy can work in certain situations, specifically when a woman sees that a man
Every piece here is something Fabrizio Rausa can talk you through, in their own words.