Why Fabrizio Rausa thinks cold approaching is mostly a waste of time

Fabrizio Rausa draws a sharp line between two very different situations. One is when you are out living your life and you naturally encounter a pretty girl, make eye contact, and start a normal conversation. The other is deliberately blocking out three hours to walk around a mall and approach every attractive woman you see. He has no problem with the first kind. The second kind, however, treats approaching women as the goal of the outing, which in his view signals desperation and misplaced priorities. His core objection is philosophical: he does not do things for women. Just as he shaves because it makes him feel more confident rather than to please women, he believes that structuring your time around getting female attention is the wrong frame entirely.