Why Fabrizio Rausa sees dating inequality as a game to win, not fix
Fabrizio Rausa draws a direct parallel between how communists view wealth and how some men view dating. Just as a communist sees a rich man and wants to tax him rather than become him, some men see high-status guys attracting most of the women and cry unfair instead of leveling up. His response is simple: look at the guy who wins and decide to become that guy. The purpose of life, in his framing, is to win. You are here for a purpose, you were given gifts, and the job is to use them. Complaining about the distribution misses the point entirely.
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