True rejection only happens when she blocks you or tells you not to contact her
The only real sign of rejection is if she tells you directly that you are weird, tells you not to message her again, or blocks you. If she blocks you, you simply do not try to contact her again. That is the only signal that counts as a hard no. In almost every other case, silence or fading just means 'not right now.' So stop treating every unanswered message as a rejection. Wait three to six months, then try again, without seeming desperate about it.
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