The winner mentality: accept the game's rules and focus on winning

Fabrizio Rausa frames dating as a game with fixed rules. Rather than complaining that women are attracted to winners or that losers get cheated on, he says the only rational response is to stop being a loser and become a winner. His exact framing: if you do not want to get cheated on, stop being a loser, become a winner, problem solved. He is not interested in shaming women, organizing men to call out certain behaviors, or changing social norms. He sees that energy as wasted. The rules are given, the job is to win by them.