The 'Best Scorer' method: wait 3-6 months before reaching out again
Once a conversation fades and a girl stops talking to you, do not message her again within a week, two weeks, or even a month. Wait at least three to six months for things to settle down. Most things that happen in your life are not permanent, and serious problems usually dissolve within three to six months. Maybe her ex came back into her life, maybe she just lost a family member. You do not know. Giving her that time also means you do not come across as needy or desperate. If you message her every week or every day, you are practically announcing that you are sitting there waiting for her, which is the wrong signal entirely.
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