Talking to someone for a year with no romantic intent is a losing strategy
Fabrizio Rausa recounts a case from his Discord where a guy had been talking to a girl for over a year without ever making a romantic or sexual move. When she stopped responding, he wanted to know why. Fabrizio's response was twofold: first, it does not matter why she stopped, accept it and move on. Second, if you spend a year in that dynamic without any clear intent, at some point another man is going to come along and she is going to be with him. Prolonged platonic contact with no direction is not a strategy, it is stalling.
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