Stop talking to a girl for more than two weeks if she is not moving toward a date
If a girl is not following your plan of progressing toward an actual date as quickly as possible, stop the conversation. Do not keep messaging back and forth indefinitely. If she goes on vacation, you can simply say 'Cool, message me when you are back, enjoy.' If the vacation stretches to two weeks, you can check in briefly around the halfway point with light small talk, then close with 'Anyway, message me when you are back.' If she is interested, she will reply. If she is not, apply the same principle and reach out again after three to six months.
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