Progress platforms as fast as possible to become real in her mind
Until you are actually on a date with a girl, you are just an avatar in her phone. She could walk past you on the street and not even recognize you. That is the reality of online texting. To close that gap, you need to move platforms as quickly as possible: from a dating app to Instagram, from Instagram to WhatsApp, and from WhatsApp you can optionally add a FaceTime or voice call before meeting. That step has two benefits. First, it helps you confirm she is not a catfish. Second, it makes you more real to her before the date. The hardest part of dating apps and Instagram is getting a girl to actually show up in person. Moving through platforms faster shortens the distance between 'some avatar' and a real person she actually wants to meet.
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Less is always more with texting, but dropping the date ask too early also fails
When in doubt, text her less. Less is always more with women. That said, going too far in the other direction and just suddenly hammering her with a date request out of nowhere is also the wrong move. You need to weave the date naturally in
Putting a price tag on your attention is the core texting principle
The fundamental problem with nice-guy or simp texting is that you give your attention away for free with no conditions attached. Your attention needs to have a price tag on it. You talk to her to advance to a date, and you do that by painti
Every text you send should move toward a date or stay silent
When you are texting a woman, there are only two valid directions. Either you are getting closer to her by painting an image of the two of you together in her mind, which lowers her anxiety and makes her want to go out with you, or you are