Only text a girl with a clear intention, never for free attention
Every time you text a girl, there needs to be a purpose tied to a concrete goal, such as getting her on a date. Texting just to chat, to fill silence, or to stay on her radar gives away attention for nothing in return. That breaks the link between attention and sex, and that is precisely how you end up in the friend zone. At the start of a conversation you will naturally invest more to move things forward, but every exchange should be progressing toward the next step, whether that is moving from Instagram to WhatsApp, building rapport through flirting, or creating tension through teasing. If none of that is happening, you are texting for the sake of texting, and that works against you.
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