Never tell a woman your standards, or you teach her exactly how to play you

A common mistake men make is openly declaring their standards to a woman: saying things like 'I don't like a woman who parties' or listing what they will not tolerate. Fabrizio Rausa argues this is precisely why so many men get played. When you tell her your standards, you hand her the instruction manual for how to get around them. She now knows exactly what to perform or conceal to keep you interested. Keeping your standards to yourself removes that leverage from her entirely.