Fix yourself first before applying any dating or texting advice
According to Fabrizio Rausa, all the texting tips in the world will not help you if you have not built a foundation worth presenting. You need to have at least something genuinely appealing about you, whether that is physical attractiveness, financial status, an interesting personality, or some combination. The honest test he suggests is looking yourself in the mirror and asking, 'Would I date me?' If the answer is no, stop consuming advice and start working on yourself first. Chasing without having the basics in place is a waste of time and effort.
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