Dating older women: confidence, not age, is what actually matters

Fabrizio Rausa dated a woman who was 10 years older than him, and his explanation is simple: he had no insecurity about his age going into it. He did not think 'I am too young for her.' He thought 'I am me, and I am great.' Once you carry that frame into an interaction, age gaps stop being obstacles. And a practical side benefit follows: after you have been with someone significantly older, anyone closer to your age feels like a much smaller stretch. If the oldest you have been with is 10 years older, someone 2 or 3 years older represents seven years less of a gap. The evidence you build from real experience reinforces the belief, making future situations feel easy by comparison.