Dating is chaotic and non-linear, not a straight path to success
Dating is extremely random. The girl you are talking to might be talking to a celebrity right now. Her ex might be trying to get back with her. She might be going through some difficult personal situation. Any number of things could be happening in her life. Most girls you interact with will not go on a date with you the very first time you engage with them. She might be genuinely very busy, even though, honestly, most girls are not doing anything that important. Or she may simply not be attracted enough to you yet, or you may still be making mistakes in your texting because you have not developed enough experience and your own personal style yet.
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Every text you send should move toward a date or stay silent
When you are texting a woman, there are only two valid directions. Either you are getting closer to her by painting an image of the two of you together in her mind, which lowers her anxiety and makes her want to go out with you, or you are
There are seasons of life when dating is simply a bad ROI
Fabrizio Rausa uses an airplane analogy to explain this: a plane burns the most fuel on takeoff, running at full throttle, and only eases back to 60-70% once it is cruising. Early in a career or a major growth phase, you are on the runway.
Your mental state when you text directly shapes the tone she receives
Fabrizio Rausa points out that even skilled texters fail when they are in the wrong mental state. If you just finished an intense gym session with pumping music, you are wired to be direct and logical, not playful and flirtatious. That mism