Dating and texting are games of probabilities, not certainties
Fabrizio Rausa frames dating as a numbers game. Most of the time when a conversation goes nowhere, it is because you said something that did not land. But sometimes a girl stops responding because her ex came back, a family emergency happened, or any number of things you have no visibility into and do not need to know. The practical takeaway is to stop treating every lost lead as a problem to diagnose and fix. Charge it to probability and move on. Some women simply are not available at a given moment, and that has nothing to do with you.
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