Authenticity is attractive, so being yourself is also strategic
People, and especially women, are attracted to authenticity. That means if you do not want to do something, not doing it is not just honest, it also works in your favor. You do not owe anybody anything. Being unapologetically yourself is both the right thing to do and the thing that actually produces the results you want. So stop worrying so much about all the rules people tell you online. All you need is evidence that something worked for one person to know it can work for you too, and then you build from there in your own way.
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