Never push when she has already set a boundary on a date

If a woman tells you nothing is going to happen on the first date, the absolute worst thing you can do is be pushy or apply pressure. Accept it. Even if she comes back to your place, that does not automatically mean things are going further, and acting desperate or forcing the issue will not only turn her off completely but can also get you into serious legal trouble. Fabrizio Rausa is direct about this: trying something after she has told you not to is both a massive attraction killer and a potential harassment situation. Avoid it at all costs. Escalate slowly, test what works, and never throw a hammer down.