Natural conversation beats cold approaching when pre-selection is already in play

Fabrizio Rausa is not an advocate of the classic cold approach, walking up to a stranger and saying she is beautiful. His preferred model relies on context. If pre-selection is already visible, a natural moment, standing next to each other at the bar, crossing paths on the way to the bathroom, is enough. A simple, low-pressure opener like acknowledging you noticed her looking carries far more weight when she has already seen you with other women. She is inherently more open because her interest was sparked before the conversation even started.