Memorised lines cannot pass shit tests because confidence cannot be faked long-term
You can project confidence and act confident for a short while, but you will not be able to hold that facade up indefinitely. Eventually who you really are at your core comes through. That means quick-fix lines and hacks are not the answer. The answer is genuinely working on yourself over years so that real confidence becomes the default. Getting good with women then becomes a natural byproduct of living a good life and growing as a person, not a trick layered on top of an unchanged foundation.
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MembersWhy women who love you give you bad advice, especially about your social life and ambitions
The speaker argues that romantic partners, precisely because they care about keeping you close, will never advise you to become more famous, more controversial, wealthier in a way that makes you independent, or to build a wide circle of fre
Looks and height in dating get overrated, focus on what you can actually change
Fabrizio Rausa applies the same logic to looks and height that he applies to followers: yes, being tall makes things easier, but a shorter, higher-value man will outcompete a tall loser every time. Obsessing over fixed traits you cannot cha
Every text you send should move toward a date or stay silent
When you are texting a woman, there are only two valid directions. Either you are getting closer to her by painting an image of the two of you together in her mind, which lowers her anxiety and makes her want to go out with you, or you are