Girls can sense when you are at a venue just to find women
Fabrizio Rausa points out that women have a strong read on male desperation. When a guy goes to a club or a bar specifically to find girls rather than to genuinely have fun, they pick up on it. The energy is off. He says he typically goes to clubs and gets hammered with his friends, not scanning the room for targets. If he happens to meet a girl, great, but that is never the mission. His argument is that genuine fun and social momentum are attractive in themselves, while the purposeful hunt for female attention broadcasts exactly the neediness that kills attraction.
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