Finding a high-quality partner is a numbers game, not a magic moment
If you want a 10-out-of-10 partner, you are not going to stumble into one by waiting. It is a numbers game. You need to put yourself out there consistently, send the DMs, go on the dates, and keep going. Yes, someone with a larger social media presence may get more replies from the same 100 DMs than someone just starting out, but that is never a reason not to shoot your shot. Everything you need, you already have. Just get out there and do the work.
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Less is always more with texting, but dropping the date ask too early also fails
When in doubt, text her less. Less is always more with women. That said, going too far in the other direction and just suddenly hammering her with a date request out of nowhere is also the wrong move. You need to weave the date naturally in
Putting a price tag on your attention is the core texting principle
The fundamental problem with nice-guy or simp texting is that you give your attention away for free with no conditions attached. Your attention needs to have a price tag on it. You talk to her to advance to a date, and you do that by painti
Every text you send should move toward a date or stay silent
When you are texting a woman, there are only two valid directions. Either you are getting closer to her by painting an image of the two of you together in her mind, which lowers her anxiety and makes her want to go out with you, or you are