Women state preferences that do not reflect what they actually respond to

The speaker argues that women often claim they want a feminine or sensitive man, but that stated preference does not match what they actually respond to in practice. He offers two reasons: first, hormonal changes from certain medications can affect stated preferences; second, women have no personal incentive to tell men honestly what attracts them. His conclusion is that men should not be angry at women for playing the social game to their own advantage, just as men play it to theirs.