Pre-selection works because perceived effort must stay low
The key to pre-selection is that it should look effortless, even though building it takes real work. When you are seen with other women, it should feel natural and in-the-moment, not like you are showing off. If it looks try-hard, it loses its effect. The moment it appears forced, the signal backfires. Done correctly, the perceived effort is so low that it does not register as a performance, and that is exactly what makes it powerful.
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