Living rurally makes frequent dating logistically impractical
Fabrizio Rausa points out that geography is a real, practical constraint on dating frequency, not an excuse. He lives in a village where the nearest city is over an hour away. When you live in a city you can send a girl an Uber and she comes to you, or you walk downstairs and you are at the cafe. When you are an hour away from anywhere, a single date becomes a multi-hour time commitment. Going on multiple dates per week under those conditions simply does not fit into a schedule that is already dominated by trading and content creation.
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