Fabrizio Rausa on distraction in the population: it makes winning easier for you
Fabrizio Rausa takes an almost cheerful view of the fact that most people are distracted. If 90 percent of the population is busy chasing entertainment and dopamine hits, that is less competition for the people who are focused. He is not upset about it, he is not trying to save those people, and he is not complaining about the culture. From a purely strategic standpoint, mass distraction lowers the bar you need to clear to stand out. You do not need to be extraordinary. You just need to be above average, and right now that is genuinely easy.
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