Differences between people are a feature, not a problem
The fact that your friends do not say things exactly the way you do is actually the beauty of it. It would be boring if all of your friends agreed with you one hundred percent. You would have nothing to talk about and nothing to learn from each other. You would just be clones. Everyone has their own style, and that is the point. You do not need to say things exactly the way someone else says them. Develop your own version and let your differences create real conversation and real growth.
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