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MembersFabrizio Rausa on cheating with women of equal or higher attractiveness
Fabrizio Rausa explains his thinking on infidelity in terms of relative attractiveness. If your girlfriend rates as a nine but you have been with her for two years, a seven who is new will feel more exciting simply because of novelty. His s
Fabrizio Rausa lost friends after becoming publicly known because their partners disapproved
Fabrizio Rausa describes how gaining public visibility and saying controversial things about women (a common style in Switzerland, he notes) caused him to lose a significant friendship group. The girlfriends of his friends told them not to
MembersFabrizio Rausa: cheat only when you have abundance, not when you are under pressure
Fabrizio Rausa argues that infidelity should never be forced or strategic in a period of financial struggle. If your primary goal is to maximize income, you should stay focused on work and not think about cheating. He gives a personal examp