You should never want to be somebody else, not even LeBron
Fabrizio Rausa makes the point bluntly: if you would trade your life for a celebrity's without hesitation, you need to look hard in the mirror. Wanting to be someone else is a signal that you are suppressing yourself, building what he calls a shadow, and doing things you do not actually want to do. The goal is to like being yourself. As he puts it, he genuinely likes being him, and that is the starting point for everything else.
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