You cannot sustain being someone else for a prolonged period of time
Fabrizio Rausa's central argument is that the only person you can be for any real length of time is yourself. You are not just born as the perfect version of yourself, you have to become the right self, but it still has to be you. Trying to copy someone else is not a long-term strategy. You should not suppress who you are. Being authentic is not a nice idea, it is practically the only option that works over time.
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