You cannot be the next anyone. You can only be a better version of you.
Fabrizio Rausa grew up idolising celebrities. He had a Justin Bieber phase, wanted to do music, wanted to perform on talent shows. He eventually concluded he is not that good a singer, even though he still loves it and uses his drives to the gym as a private space to sing as loud as he wants. The real lesson he took from that period is that you cannot be the next Justin Bieber, the next Tate, or the next anyone. The only next you can be is a better version of yourself. Any mastery worth having requires developing the talent you already have, not grafting someone else's identity onto yourself.
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