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Why women issue shit tests and what they are actually measuring

By Fabrizio Rausa

A woman cannot simply ask you whether you are confident, because you will likely just lie to her. So instead she probes the things you are most insecure about and watches how you react. By doing that she can read exactly what your insecurities and flaws are. She is not doing this consciously as a calculated strategy. It happens naturally, because figuring out what a man is made of is built into how women operate. The test is fundamentally a test of confidence, not a test of any particular topic she brings up.

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