Why first date length matters more than most guys realize
One of the most common mistakes guys make on first dates is letting them run too long. The whole point of a first date is two things: to prove you are a real person and not just some avatar online, and to be the trailer to the movie, not the full movie. A short, casual date gives her just enough to want more. The longer you sit with a girl, especially early on, the more you risk giving too much away and not knowing how to behave. Most guys do not get more attractive the longer they stay. They get worse.
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