Fabrizio Rausa lost friends after becoming publicly known because their partners disapproved
Fabrizio Rausa describes how gaining public visibility and saying controversial things about women (a common style in Switzerland, he notes) caused him to lose a significant friendship group. The girlfriends of his friends told them not to spend time with him, calling him unbearable. He stopped going out with those people because they simply followed whatever their partners said. His observation is that the men who do this end up in a worse position anyway: eventually the relationship ends or the woman loses interest, and at that point the man has no friends left because he sacrificed them all for her approval.
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