She should do most of the talking when you are texting
When texting a girl, most of the time it should be her talking. Not solely focused on her, but as a general rule, Fabrizio Rausa knows about five times more about the girl he is talking to than she knows about him, if not more. He has been with girls for a month or so where they still did not know exactly what he does every day, only that he is self-employed. The reasoning is simple: people like to talk about themselves. If you want someone to like you, have them talk about themselves. That is a general social principle, not just a dating one.
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Free-flowing conversation beats rapid-fire questions every time
When texting a woman, the flow should feel natural, not like an interrogation. The structure is: say something, ask a question, she responds, you respond to what she said, then ask another question. It goes question, content, content, quest
MembersUse indirect invitations so she invites you rather than you inviting her
When a woman says something like 'Come to Ubud and you will know what cacao ceremonies are,' she is not saying it neutrally. Fabrizio Rausa explains that she remembered she had mentioned going to Ubud at the start of the conversation, and n
Never ask obvious follow-up questions: let curiosity stay implicit
When she mentioned Vipassana, the wrong move is to immediately ask "What is Vipassana?" like a fourth grader asking what someone does for fun. You can look it up yourself and gain knowledge about her interests without turning the conversati