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Presence and how you speak to women is what actually drives attraction

By Fabrizio Rausa

When you strip everything back, attraction boils down to your presence and the way you talk to a woman. That includes confidence, but it is more than just confidence. Your choice of words, your attitude, and your overall energy all factor in. Fabrizio Rausa points to a friend who has never consumed any dating advice, is not particularly handsome, and is not wealthy, yet has been with nearly 200 women. The single explanation is that he knows how to speak to women. The same logic explains cases like poker player Mickey Mazize pulling a beautiful woman at an art exhibition where she had no idea he was rich or famous, and where he was completely alone with no social proof working in his favor.

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