Ordering alcohol on a first date signals nervousness to her
Going to a bar is fine, but ordering a drink just to have one sends the wrong message. If you are the one who initiates the drinking, it tells her you need alcohol to talk to women, which signals nervousness. Most of the time, driving to the date removes the option entirely anyway. The only situation where drinking makes sense is when she initiates it. Even then, not ordering when she does can come across as awkward or weird, so there is some nuance, but the default position should be to stay sober unless she leads.
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