Never leave her with nothing to respond to, dead ends kill conversations
Especially at the start, you do not want her to have to think too hard about what to reply. If you have ever been in a situation where a girl just says "yes" or "okay" and you do not know what to answer next, you understand the problem. Avoid putting her in that same position. Nine times out of ten, if she ends up in that dead-end situation, she will not bother replying. Fabrizio Rausa is honest that even he does this: if a girl texts him and at some point just says "okay" without following it up, and he has the leverage in the dynamic, he does not reply either. You do not want to have a conversation just to have a conversation.
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Free-flowing conversation beats rapid-fire questions every time
When texting a woman, the flow should feel natural, not like an interrogation. The structure is: say something, ask a question, she responds, you respond to what she said, then ask another question. It goes question, content, content, quest
MembersUse indirect invitations so she invites you rather than you inviting her
When a woman says something like 'Come to Ubud and you will know what cacao ceremonies are,' she is not saying it neutrally. Fabrizio Rausa explains that she remembered she had mentioned going to Ubud at the start of the conversation, and n
Never ask obvious follow-up questions: let curiosity stay implicit
When she mentioned Vipassana, the wrong move is to immediately ask "What is Vipassana?" like a fourth grader asking what someone does for fun. You can look it up yourself and gain knowledge about her interests without turning the conversati