Love is the brave choice, not something to numb yourself against
There is a strain of advice in certain online communities telling men to suppress their emotions, avoid love, and focus only on maximising short-term encounters. Fabrizio Rausa disagrees strongly. Love is genuinely beautiful, and living without it is simply boring. The moment you experience stretches of feeling nothing, you quickly realise how dull that existence is. Pursuing as many one-night stands as possible out of a desire to hurt people or seek revenge is not an achievement. It is cowardice dressed up as skill. If you are running from love because a previous relationship went badly, you are not being tough, you are being afraid. Allow yourself to fall in love again. Do not let one bad experience close you off to something that genuinely enriches life.
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