How Fabrizio Rausa's trading obsession shaped his relationship patterns
During his last relationship, Fabrizio Rausa's ex would come over at 8 p.m. and he would not spend any actual time with her until 11 p.m. or midnight. He was at his desk with headphones on, locked in and working. She would be in his bed waiting. This is what his relationships looked like during his most intensive trading period, and it is a big reason why many of those relationships did not last as long as they could have. He was so absorbed in his work that even one night a week with a girlfriend felt like too much time away from his mission.
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